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January 7, 2004 by understandinglove
I just mean we end up debateing about some of it.. lol nothing bad. Well talking isnt bad hon .. we used to talk alot. just maybe not at the time of sleep. But i also know where shes comeing from .. i like talking in bed makes it personal and intimate comfy even. L hates that to.. so i learned not to communicate as much. takes a bit of time. I think it is nice that you go a hour earlier for her not all men would do that. Maybe you could try talking to her in some other kind of intimate settin...
January 7, 2004 by understandinglove
Sorry i was away so long. But im back now, so its all good. My break was pretty good, except for the fact of going without any for 2 weeks. That sucks. The one thing that bothers me most about hannah is when we go to bed, she always starts talking. We've talked about it, and shes gotten better now - but its forced me to go to bed an hour earlier just so we can talk about crap without cutting into my sleep. It also looks like she will be getting a job soon, which will be good for the both of u...
December 27, 2003 by understandinglove
Well Chirstmas is over. Thank Heavens for that. I spent way to much money. Life is so complecated sometimes. I hate that. I'm always pulled in five hundred directions every day. Which way do you go first what is more important this or that? I just hate it. I like being organized and planned. And I just hate it when something pops up unexpectedly. Drives me crazy. Hell maybe I'm nuts. Soo your out of town for like a while. LOL glad to know thought you had forgot about me. HA like ane one could...
December 16, 2003 by understandinglove
Every Year I say I am going to start shopping early and have it all done early. But Every year.. that never happens. LOL so Im one of the people on the night before xmas running around the store .. buying up stuff LOL. The last minute gifts. Whew .. Christmas is just to much. People have forgot the real reason of Christmas?? It's Christ's Birthday. Why do we get gifts on his Birthday? We Dont recieve presents on other Peoples birthdays. So why on his? Shouldnt It be a day of Lending Helping h...
December 11, 2003 by understandinglove
Im sick!!!!!! I got this horrid Cold. My house is a wreck and I just do not have ANY energy! lol Sucky thing. That does make sense. Kids can make it very hard on a relationship! and you have to endure alot of things. Smaller Children dont make it quite as hard as a older child would or will. If your love makes it through the kids then you have something worth holding onto. I got a new kitty. well Ive had her for a while now. Shes so loveable sits on my lap all the time an sleeps with me....
December 11, 2003 by understandinglove
Well, if i fall in love with someone that has kids (ahem) - i will weigh the good and the bad. If my desire to be with her is strong enough to make kids worth it, then i will just have to deal with them. But if kids arent worth our love for each other - then its stay with her for as long as i can stand. None? Like as in Never? What if you fall in love with someone who has One or two or three???? We are going to have to give it a few days anyway. Shes all sore now from doing it a couple tim...
December 10, 2003 by understandinglove
None? Like as in Never? What if you fall in love with someone who has One or two or three???? Kids are not all bad. And I will give you the fact that they are not for everyone. But that is something you just will not know until You have your very first one. And their innocent lil eyes look into yours for the very first time. You never forget how inncocent they are. Ane way they can drive you insane after that LOL. Just wait till ur like 30. I wouldnt trade my kid for nothing. Most wouldnt...
December 10, 2003 by understandinglove
Well, shes going through alot of things right now. So, she was crying that she lost her virginity, but still happy that it happened. Then she started bleeding later that night, and got all sad about that. So i figure that night might not have been a good idea. But yesterday shes all like 'lets do it agian'. So im always confused on how she is feeling about it. oh, and: Im not having kids...
December 9, 2003 by understandinglove
Well it's not such a horrible thing i guess. But thats my opinion and not everyone would agree with that. Make sure your careful I dont want to see you wrapped up into someting that you cant get out of. Emotional like how? Explain lol Emotional could mean alot of things to a woman. And yes You should thank god every day your a Man not female. lol Ive not been feeling real well. Been sick ..A cold and sinus. sucky! That's when life is the hardest on me cause my life or the life of the kids d...
December 9, 2003 by understandinglove
I wouldnt know what to ask you to make for me. The Space Center? Yea, i think i remember that. It was in the St. Louis Science Center. Remember the Imax? That big dome-building with the screen on the ceiling. H and i had sex for the first time last night. She was all emotional about it before and after. Took a coupel days of talking to her for her to come around, but i wanted to be sure that it was her decision and i wasnt "talking her into it". I wanted to wait for marriage.. but things ...
December 8, 2003 by understandinglove
yeah i remember that. Remember that camera??? And them pictures you took. LOL The ones of me on the comp. buying gifts for alot of people isnt bad. You just have to be organized n Plan ahead. Start buying through the year as things are on sale.. ect Its not so bad. But I just got a late start. Alot of things going on yanno .. Plus you have to listen to the things they want n like. That is a major key to buying them things. They girls are getting a Dvd/mp3/cd player. Dale earndart Jr st...
December 8, 2003 by understandinglove
Thats a reason i dont want any kids. Not yet anyway. A couple years ago, my family made a plan at christmas, where we would all draw one name for christmas out of a hat, and each person only buys one gift. Its alot cheaper, and easier. Helps you focus on what christmas is really about, and not what the corporations want you to think its for. So, now i have H, two friends and H's mother. Thats plenty for me. I want a cat, but the apartment wants a $300 deposit for it, along with a $100 fee....
December 8, 2003 by understandinglove
LOL yes I remember. And do you remember the T-Bones? And the BBQ Chicken? All your friends loved the chicken. I dont drink MtDew Ane more. I Drink DR Pepper lol. you think buying for one person is hard??? LOL well lets count .. i got some where around 20 people to buy for. LOL And as far as the kids go i gotta keep it even? How do you keep it even? Its impossible lol I end up buying stuff right up until xmas day LOL ... its horrible. Why not get her a nice set of pots n pans??? or A nice ...
December 8, 2003 by understandinglove
So far, ive gotten her three board games and a microwave. I guess thats enough... i just dont want her to get me a whole lot more stuff - then i will feel that i ripped her off or something. THe microwave was like $130. It was expensive, but i dont think it counts as a "nice" gift. One of my friends insisted on getting me a gift, and hes one of those people that will get upset if you dont get him one cuz he gave you one. Even though you told him not to. Remember all those Mountain Dews ...
December 5, 2003 by understandinglove
Well I leave the future open to possibility. Yanno.. I dont write off anything. Cause anything could happen. Hrm Well if she has plenty of Jewlery. Then maybe you could get her something like a Nice Bedspread out fit. Or something Like curtains or.. Geez lol I'm trying to think She likes photography you might get her something in that department. I dont know what I want for xmas.. I did ask for some 14 k gold earrings. That i really liked. I got a Really nice watch already and nice jeweler...